Randi Seguin

📍 Langley, BC + Virtual
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Therapy with Randi

Therapy with me is rooted in conversation, connection, and collaboration.

I’m generally not the kind of therapist who sits back silently. You can expect me to show up with an engaged, thoughtful presence. My style is grounded, curious, and shaped by both clinical training and what I’ve learned in and alongside communities over the years.

I aim to create a space where you feel heard and understood, while also offering reflection, questions, and dialogue that help us explore what feels stuck, what’s shifting, and what might be possible.

Many people come to therapy feeling like they have to explain or justify themselves, their identities, relationships, desires, or the language they use. My goal is to take that pressure off from the start. You don’t need to defend who you are here. This is your space to explore what’s coming up, unpack patterns, and figure out what feels true to you, without judgment.

I primarily work with adults (18+) and often connect with folks navigating non-monogamy, kink, fetish, or
non-traditional relationships. That said, you don’t need to fit any particular label or community for us to work
well together.

If you’re looking for a space where we can be curious, honest, and maybe even bring a little humour into the
mix, you’re in the right place.

Approach, Modalities & Training

My Approach
My approach is relational, trauma-informed, and grounded in collaboration. I don’t see people as problems to be fixed or diagnoses to manage. I’m more interested in understanding what’s underneath—what’s been protective, how systems and relationships have shaped your responses, and what might feel possible when those experiences are met with care and curiosity. I draw from evidence-based modalities and adapt them to fit the person in front of me, rather than forcing therapy into a one-size-fits-all model. Depending on your goals, our work may include skills-building, processing and meaning-making, nervous system support, and practical strategies for change. While modalities and training matter, the most important part of therapy is the relationship itself. I work collaboratively, respecting your autonomy, lived experience, and the pace that feels right for you.
Modalities & training
  • Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT) for trauma
  • DBT (emotion regulation, distress tolerance, interpersonal effectiveness)
  • Trauma-informed cognitive approaches
  • Relational-Cultural Therapy
  • Intersectional feminist frameworks
  • Somatic awareness and body-based practices
  • Substance use counselling with a harm reduction focus
  • Sex-positive, kink-affirming practice and Sexual Health Expert Accreditation (SHEA)
Issues I support
  • Non-monogamy, open relationships, and polyamory
  • Kink, BDSM, and fetish exploration
  • Relational dynamics, ruptures, and repair
  • Shame, stigma, and trauma related to sexuality or desire
  • Boundaries, self-advocacy, and agency
  • Identity exploration
  • Complex family dynamics and chosen family
  • Neurodivergence (ADHD, ASD, Tics, FASD)
  • Substance use including harm reduction, overdose trauma, treatment, and relational impacts
  • Grief, loss, and ambiguous endings
  • Caregiver burnout and emotional labour
  • Reclaiming pleasure, joy, and connection
Who I work with
I work primarily with adults (18+). Many of the folks I support are navigating non-monogamy, kink, fetish, or other non-traditional relationships—but you don’t need to identify with any specific label or community to work with me. I also work closely with caregivers supporting children, parents, partners, or loved ones. Therapy can be a space to process burnout, grief, identity shifts, and the emotional weight of care. People often come to me when they feel disconnected from themselves or others, stuck in relational patterns, or seeking a space where they don’t have to over-explain their experiences to be understood.
I live, work, and provide services on the ancestral, unceded, and traditional territories of the sq̓əc̓iy̓aɁɬ təməxʷ (Katzie), qʼʷa:n̓ƛʼən̓ (Kwantlen), máthxwi (Matsqui), and se’mya’me (Semiahmoo) peoples. My services also reach across what is commonly referred to as British Columbia, the unceded and ancestral homelands of over 200 distinct First Nations. I offer this acknowledgment with gratitude, humility, and responsibility as an uninvited guest.

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